We're BACK!

HELLO! I can't believe I'm back after 2 years of not writing anything! It's not because I haven't had anything to write about, things have just been a tad busy in the Craven household...

As I look back at my previous posts to see what needs to be covered from the past few years of blogging silence, I can't help but laugh at the one of the last ones I wrote.

The title was "Be Still" and it makes me laugh because these past 2 years the Cravens have done anything BUT be still. This is going to be hard but Im going to try and condense what has happened and what has been going on with us since the summer of 2016 when I was still in Japan! Bear with me...


In May of 2016 Will was leaving for his third and final deployment in Japan. If you remember reading the post I just mentioned earlier, we we're in the process of trying to figure out how and if we would be starting a family. Before Will left, we saw a few doctors and it was determined, after some testing, that our best route to have children was through Invitro Fertilization , commonly known as IVF. I remember feeling relieved that we had a plan, but also defeated because I knew we couldn't start anything until Will was home later that summer for a visit. I quickly learned that with infertility and IVF, waiting was just part of it and wasn't going away for a while. 

Fast forward to August 2016, after a long summer of more waiting but also some amazing trips with my girl friends, Will was back for 2 weeks and I had an appointment scheduled with a well known Japanese fertility doctor. We were so excited to meet him and get some answers as to when we could finally have some babies! I will never forget the first day we started our trek to his office and started this incredible, terrifying, and exhausting journey that would change our lives forever. I will write a separate post after this that covers our IVF journey and what it entailed! 

SPOILER ALERT...we got pregnant...WITH TWINS! Again, I'll do a more in depth separate post to cover all the details and the steps we had to take to get pregnant but for the sake of this post not taking forever, this is the very very condensed version. 

At this point we were obviously still living in Japan and we found out the naval hospital where I would deliver did not have a NICU. This meant because I was already high risk with a twin pregnancy we had to figure out where I was going to go and deliver in order to have a NICU present. Our options were very limited and the closest naval hospital was a 2 hour flight away on the island of Okinawa, Japan. No thank you. 

After a lot of speaking with the doctors and trying to figure out the best plan for us, it was decided that I would leave Japan a year earlier than intended and fly home to Raleigh, NC where I would be until the babies were born and Will was done in Japan. My due date was June and with Will deploying again in May this was absolutely the best case scenario for having help at home and not being alone with newborn twins in Japan! On the flip side, this also meant I would have to fly home in February, leave Will in Japan and also accept that he would most likely not be there for the birth of our first babies. Cue the hormonal melt down. 

Things started moving really fast after this with preparing to pack up our Japan home, move Will on base, begin my final "tour de Japan" and of course spend every second with Will as I could. The thought of leaving Japan without him was so hard for me to comprehend. The next time we would see each other we would be parents...to 2! I was an emotional wreck but we made sure to spend every moment together and make the most of it! 

ok...its getting long I know. Heres a fast track timeline...

February 19, 2017- I flew home to North Carolina and said goodbye to my sweet husband! 

May 19, 2017- The absolute lights of our lives were born, Jimmy and Tommy Craven! My mom was with me in the operating room but will got to FaceTime from Japan!

May 23, 2017- Will flys to Raleigh and meets our boys! The most special day and I remember every second. 

June 4, 2017- Will flys back to Japan for deployment. The worst...

August 8, 2017- Will comes back for a visit during the halfway mark of deployment. The boys were almost 3 months old and it was such a special trip to have him with us for the 10 days! 

August 17, 2017- While Will was home we got our new orders! We found out Will was going to be an instructor in California at NAS Lemoore. It wasn't our first choice but we couldn't help but feel excitement about being together as a family! 

August 18, 2017- Will leaves again to finish deployment, but the next time we would all reunite would be for good! 

December 18, 2017- Will left Japan and came to Raleigh! We were done with long distance and could finally be together as a family for the first time! I can't tell you the relief I felt when I picked him up from the airport that night. Being a single mom to twins, with tons of family help of course, was one of the hardest times of my life! But we made it...

We had the most amazing time celebrating with family and friends that Christmas. There was so much to be thankful for and so much to catch up on, truly will always be the Christmas to beat! 

January 9, 2018 came fast and before we knew it we were packing our bags and heading to the airport to start our next 3 or more years in Hanford, California. The boys were amazing travelers and poor Tubbs did great in his kennel on the bottom of the plane. 

Are y'all still reading? Bless you if you are. I am exhausted from all of this I can imagine you are too. I'll end this novel of a post here by saying we could not be more thankful to all of those involved in our past 2 years. Especially the ones that kept this mama going during those long days and weeks when Will was gone! It has been quite the whirlwind but our story is actually just beginning. It may not be filled with the glamorous date nights, traveling and sleeping in anymore but we wouldn't change it for the world. 

We love you all. Cheers to this new chapter of life and what the Lord has in store for us! Knowing him, I better get ready...

Love, 
Will, Caroline, Jimmy, Tommy and Tubbs